Cherry Blossoms 2013

The arrival of cherry blossoms is my absolute favorite time of the year in Washington DC. We try every year to make the 20 mile trek downtown to see the cherry blossoms blooming around the Tidal Basin in DC. Some years it is cold. Some years it is rainy. Some years it is perfect weather. This year the weather was perfect when the blooms arrived. Knowing that the peak window for the blooms is only a few days, the kids and I decided to go see them early one morning last week before school. The trees did not disappoint! (Parking is a different story!) I am so thankful that every year at this time I can remember that we shared this special time with Julia.  I think I will always associate cherry blossoms with Julia. I like that. This year was Cohen's first visit to see the trees and he was a trooper!  We had a wonderful morning and even managed to make it back to school only a bit late. :)

2011

2011

Cohen at 10 Months

At 10 Months I can....
- Crawl very quickly
- Cruise!
- bite with my 4 teeth
- clap
- wave
- make lots of sounds: mamababadadagagapapa!

Likes
- my siblings!
- my cousins!
- trying to "scare" people by growling
- playing peekaboo
- lift the flap books
- my toy car for riding in
- outside!
- animals
- baths!!!

Dislikes
- being tired
- washing my face

Meet Guiliana

Today I would like to introduce you to Guiliana - or G, as she is affectionately called. G is two and a half and has mosaic trisomy 18. She is one brave, tough, strong little girl! She has overcome so much already -- heart surgery, gastrointestinal difficulties and surgeries, and bouts with RSV and pneumonia -- enough to challenge any kid! But she's still smiling! She eats orally (but has a back up g-tube just in case it's needed), is potty trained, is mobile, and is always stylish.  G's mom is a vital member of our trisomy community. She is full of great advice and offers support and encouragement to all. She is G's biggest cheerleader and advocate.  Jill and G -- we are so glad to know you! To catch up more with G, visit her blog at "Giuliana's Gift of Life."

Words

A fellow trisomy mom compiled photos of our kids with trisomy along with one word each of us would use to describe our little one.  Here is the one that includes Julia.

She is my gift.

Trisomy 18 Awareness Day

Today, 3/18, is Trisomy 18 Awareness Day! Here is some information I would like to share with you on this important day:

T - a Trisomy occurs when there are three copies of a particular chromosome instead of two. The addition of extra information can cause anomalies to develop during gestation. In trisomy 18, heart defects and kidney defects are very common. Other common characteristics include clenched hands, rocker bottom feet, small chin/jaw, and cognitive and developmental delays.

R - Raising awareness. Today, 3/18, is about raising awareness of trisomy 18. Before Julia was born, I did not know much at all about trisomy 18. Many health care professionals know very little about it as well. Educating the public and the health care profession can raise the access to and standard of care for those affected by trisomy.

I - Information. Having access to current, up-to-date information is crucial for parents and health care professionals when making treatment decisions about children with trisomy 18. Much of what is published in medical literature is out of date and inaccurate. We need to rely more on recent publications and access to families and physicians with experience with trisomy 18.

S - Special needs. Individuals with trisomy 18 absolutely will have additional needs. They may need assistive devices to eat, to have mobility, to communicate and more. They may need various procedures and therapies. The technology available today makes those things possible!

O - Outreach. The trisomy community offers wonderful support to families and can also be a resource for the medical community when it comes to trisomy 18. A list of support organizations and groups can be found here.

M - Me. Each person with trisomy 18 is an individual. As such, each person deserves the same rights as any other individual. The right to LIFE, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

Y - Years! Some individuals with trisomy 18 can live years! With increased access to treatments and support more of these precious children can live longer lives with their families who adore them.

18 - For my list of "18 Things You Should Know About Trisomy 18" click here.

My Julia, full trisomy 18, at age 9 months

Meet Lilly

Today I would like you to meet another Lilly. This Lilly, aka Little Firecracker, was born on July 4 -- just 5 months before Julia. Her blog, Pray for Lilly, was one of the first I found after Julia was born. Lilly was diagnosed prenatally with full trisomy 18. Although her parents were told they would not have much time together, Lilly lived for 17 months! Lilly's family had the opportunity to celebrate over 500 days together. They celebrated all of Lilly's milestones. They celebrated holidays and birthdays. They took lots of pictures. They sought the best care for Lilly and traveled out of state to get the heart surgeries Lilly needed. Lilly was a huge inspiration to me during Julia's life. Seeing her smiling face in so many photos gave me much comfort and hope. Like Julia, Lilly brought her family much joy!
Lilly went to heaven the night before Julia. Her mother and I like to imagine them there together-- our little two year olds running free and happy. Lilly's mom continues to blog about Lilly and their family. Their family continues to be a great encouragement to us in our journey. Their oldest daughter writes to Sydney and sends her sweet Julia remembrances. We hope to all meet in person someday! To learn more about Lilly's sweet life, please visit Pray for Lilly.

Meet Lily

Today I would like to introduce you to Lily! Lily has full trisomy 18 and is almost four years old! I had the wonderful opportunity to meet Lily and her family when Julia was 10 months old. (To read about that fun meeting click here.) Lily is a determined little girl! She has been determined to be mobile and is now working on crawling! She can do many things she was never "supposed" to do according to her doctors. She is surrounded at home by an older brother and two little sisters, so she has plenty of motivation to get moving! I always enjoy keeping up with how Lily is doing! To see more cute Lily photos and videos, visit Lily's blog at "I See Love."